(Lesson No. 1)
Sitting here on a Saturday morning following a week of protest, turmoil, and violence has me in a deep state of reflection. Why do we turn on each other? Why do people that have so much more in common than differences chose to see only the differences? From the nastiness of our presidential campaign rhetoric, the gratuitous violence in entertainment, and the real violence on our streets, one does really wonder at times about what in the world are we headed for. Our family’s experience over the past year and half has allowed us to see the other side of human nature, thank goodness! Once people in our community (and beyond) found out that our son was gravely ill, the outpouring of care and concern has really lifted us. The efforts of so many to help comfort us will never be forgotten and has played no small part in the fact that our son is still with us! There have been so many things done on the behalf of my family that there is no way I can begin to think about them without being overwhelmed by the compassion showered upon us! There have been fundraisers, meal trains, hats passed in church, gift cards, monetary gifts, shoulders to cry on, dishes washed, clothes cleaned, school tasks completed…etc!!!! The list could go for paragraphs! Complete strangers have sent us care boxes, the community held a bone marrow donor drive. The town in which we live gets run down a lot, both from those from the outside and those who live here. I will tell you this, there is has never been a more generous place in my life experience. I am completely humbled by the efforts of this community! Thank you! I can only hope I can pay forward your amazing kindness. There is hope! Humankind has a great capacity for love and generosity and this place is a great example of that!